Episode 37: Burdens Down At Your Feet
In today’s episode, I’m going to share with you why it’s important to shift away from using the word “my.”
If you’re a member of the Honey Bunny Inner Circle (which you should be if you’re not btw), you’ve probably seen me mention “It’s Not Your Money: How to Live Fully From Divine Abundance.” This is literally a book that heaven sent my way because I saw a random post about it on from somebody I am connected to on Facebook. I downloaded a sample and within the first page or so, I knew I had to read it. I love this book so much that I’ll probably be referencing it just as much as I do Louise Hay’s “You Can Heal Your Life.” You know how much I looooooove that Louise Hay book.
In the book, one of the things that Tosha recommends is being open to the idea of releasing the concept of doership. I know you’re familiar with doership. Doership is a major part of my MO. It’s the striving, pushing, making ish happen, but not in a good, productive way. Like the time I decided that I was going to push my way thru getting back into shape after just having had a baby and ended up injuring my knee. Set me back an entire month.
Here’s a really simple way to start doing this that Tosha offers up in the book.
She says to stop using MY.
Here’s what she writes:
When I read this, I realized that I have been carrying the burden of MY around and it was making me crazy. My business, my daughter, my finances, my relationships.
MY, MY, MY, MY, MY
And like Tosha said, “If it all belongs to you, the burden is all yours as well.”
Tremendo a-ha moment. I realized that I don’t need to carry all that baggage around and hurt my back like that (like Erykah Badu sings). I can lay all of my burdens down and trust that God is with me and that he’ll cover me with his feathers like it says in Psalm 91:4.
So now I’ve been shifting away from MY to THE, especially when I pray. “God, please show me what to do with the business. Show me what you would like for me to do. I want to help people. God, I surrender the baby to you. I pray for her highest good and I trust that you are with her always.”
It’s a very small change and it’s helped me to relieve a lot of anxiety. When I find myself shifting into MY, I stop myself and say, “Oh, no, no, no. That’s gotta go, go, go. Bye Bye Bye to My My My.” I know that sounds super silly, but oftentimes humor is what shifts us out of that negative energy. Whatever works to make it do what it do, boo.
HB, you are precious to God. Nothing in your life is too trivial for the Creator of the Universe. I know it’s hard and sometimes you feel so overwhelmed and you worry about how it’s all going to come together. I honor you for caring so much. You’ve got a big heart and big dreams and that is amazing
At the same time, I want to remind you that you don’t ever have to carry anything alone. Keep shifting your mindset from MY to THE or even to straight up saying, “God, this is yours.” because the reality is that it is God’s. Honestly, I’d rather have God handle it then have me to do it.
Now don’t get it twisted. This doesn’t mean that I’m shooting the ish all day everyday. Nope. I’m taking consistent action, doing what I can with what I have right now AND instead of working myself into a sleepless frenzy about everything under the sun, I am trying on a new attitude. “This isn’t mine. It’s God’s. Let God be God.”
And that’s what I want to tell you. Let God be God. You don’t have to play that role. Hand all of your burdens over to him and try on faith instead of fear. Honestly faith means reminding yourself over and over again a gazillion times a day that you are loved, you are safe, you are valuable and you are God’s.
I bless you, HB. I bless your dreams, your relationships, your endeavors. I bless you in the moments you feel lonely and the moments where you only believe the worst about yourself. You are so much more than your thoughts and you are bigger than any obstacle you face. I believe that for you and hold that space for you as you learn to believe it for yourself.
There you have it. A short and sweet episode for you today. Be blessed today and always.
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I’m cheering for you. Like you’re casting all your cares on God.